Our family dispute resolution solicitors understand that disputes in family matters can feel overwhelming. Emotions run high, and it's often hard to see a clear way through. But not every conflict needs to end in court. In fact, many can be resolved more calmly, more cost-effectively — and with better long-term outcomes — through alternative methods.
We’ll help you decide which route is right for you, and at the right time. Sometimes, it’s mediation. In other cases, a collaborative approach works best. It may even come down to a simple negotiation between solicitors — or a round table meeting here at our offices.
Our focus is always on what works best for you. That means thinking practically, compassionately, and with the bigger picture in mind.
For many families, a round table meeting is a strong alternative to going to court. It should be non-confrontational, more cost-effective, and often more productive — especially when the goal is to reach a workable agreement, not “win” a case.
You’ll have your solicitor with you throughout the meeting, supporting you and helping guide the conversation. And you’ll be part of it — you’ll be heard. You’ll be able to say what matters to you, and help shape the outcome.
RTMs aren’t just for divorce cases. They’re just as useful for settling disagreements about children or sorting out financial arrangements after a separation. In fact, in many cases, mediation isn’t even needed if an RTM leads to an agreement.
Our offices are set up to give you space and choice: separate rooms for each party if needed, and a neutral room for joint negotiation. That kind of flexible setup helps reduce tension and increases the chance of walking away with a fair, mutually acceptable solution.
We’ve seen time and again how RTMs can open the door to better communication and healthier relationships moving forward — especially when children are part of the picture. Sometimes a respectful agreement now can spare years of stress later.
Mediation is another way to find resolution — and, in many cases, to avoid the stress and rigidity of court proceedings.
A trained, neutral mediator meets with both parties (usually together) to talk through the issues you can’t quite agree on. Whether it's divorce, financial arrangements, or children’s care, the goal is the same: to find a way forward that works for everyone involved.
Mediators don’t take sides. They don’t give legal advice, either — but they do know when to suggest you seek it. In fact, it’s often helpful to have legal guidance alongside the mediation process, and we’ll be happy to advise you when the time is right.
We work closely with recognised mediation services across the region — in Cirencester, Swindon, Gloucester, Cheltenham, Oxford, Bristol and London — and can refer you to someone experienced and local to you.
We understand that choosing the right path can be daunting. That’s why we offer a free initial 30-minute consultation to talk through your situation, understand what matters most to you, and outline your options.
Just give us a call on 01285 650000 and ask to speak with a member of the Family Team. We’re here to help — with calm, clear, and compassionate advice.
View Sarah Pugh’s Article on Resolution
The Government's family mediation voucher scheme provides funding for eligible families to use mediation to resolve their disputes. Our family dispute resolution solicitors can advise you on whether this scheme applies to your situation.
For related services, see our pages on divorce and separation, children law, and financial claims.
SML Law's family dispute resolution solicitors are based in Cirencester and serve clients across The Cotswolds. Contact us on 01285 650000 to speak to a member of our Family Team today.
Tel: 01285 650 000
Fax: 01285 649 898
DX: 39400 Cirencester
Email: info@sml-law.co.uk
